Friday, August 18, 2023

8-18-23

 Thank you for trials you have given me

Thank you for the friends you have given me

Thank you that being in you helps me in sufferings and help me in seeing friends through you

Thank you that I can confide in you when friends fail

Thank you for your mercy and how you respond to me even though you are busy and important - you are lowly and you care about me

Thank you for giving me a word through Monica when I prayed and asked for one on Wednesday. Thank you that you are eager to help me! Thank you for helping me to trust in the face of accusation and pain. Thank you that you are my God. 

WORD 8-18-23

I was praying for you this morning and had the impression of God’s absolute delight in helping you when you face temptation or even fear about going back to old sins and wrong ways of thinking. It was like I saw you facing those temptations and I felt His eagerness to teach and transform you through those things. Keep trusting Him!

 Thank you very much - I asked the Lord for a word on Wednesday and He never fails. Thanks to is spot on. I have been dealing with lies about my worth/beauty. Could you please pray for me for that? I want to focus on what matters to God

 Thank you for sharing this! Yes I’ll be praying. As Corrie Ten Boom would say, you already have the victory in Christ over those things! He will help you!


Our body image should be based on only one factor: does the way I present my body indicate that my life is dedicated to the glory of God? When God’s glory is our goal, we can have confidence and pleasure in our physical appearance, regardless of society’s standards, knowing that we are pleasing the only One whose opinion matters (Psalm 37:18).


  • Psalm 139:14 – “For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”
  • Ephesians 2:10 – “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.”
  • 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 – “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.”
  • 1 Peter 3:3-4 – “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.”
  • 1 Corinthians 15:44-49 – “If there is a natural body, there is also a spiritual body. ... And just as we have borne the image of the earthly man, so shall we bear the image of the heavenly man.”

The Bible describes our bodies as the temple of the Holy Spirit, as God’s workmanship, as dust. Not once are we admonished to diet and exercise until we are runway-worthy or to berate every inch we can pinch. We’re told to go into the world and preach the gospel, to be a light, and to be the hands and feet of Christ12.


1 Samuel 16:7 ESV / 1,036 helpful votes 

But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”


1 Peter 3:3-4 ESV / 900 helpful votes 

Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious.

  • Proverbs 31:30 ESV / 757 helpful votes 

    Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.

  • Genesis 1:26-27 ESV / 607 helpful votes 

    Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.

  • 1 Timothy 4:8 ESV / 604 helpful votes 

    For while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.

  • Romans 12:2 ESV / 429 helpful votes 

    Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

1 Corinthians 10:31 ESV / 402 helpful votes 

So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.


1 Timothy 2:9-10 ESV / 385 helpful votes 

Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.


Philippians 4:13 ESV / 317 helpful votes 

I can do all things through him who strengthens me.


Isaiah 43:7 ESV / 317 helpful votes 

Everyone who is called by my name, whom I created for my glory, whom I formed and made.”


Romans 12:1-2 ESV / 287 helpful votes 

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Philippians 3:21 ESV / 221 helpful votes 

Who will transform our lowly body to be like his glorious body, by the power that enables him even to subject all things to himself.


1 Corinthians 3:16 ESV / 269 helpful votes 

Do you not know that you are God's temple and that God's Spirit dwells in you?


Psalm 45:11 ESV / 196 helpful votes 

And the king will desire your beauty. Since he is your lord, bow to him.


Romans 6:6 ESV / 127 helpful votes 

We know that our old self was crucified with him in order that the body of sin might be brought to nothing, so that we would no longer be enslaved to sin.


Rise up, my love, my fair one, And come away! “O my dove, in the clefts of the rock, In the secret places of the cliff, Let me see your face, Let me hear your voice; For your voice is sweet, And your face is lovely.”

I hope this helps!


What does the Bible say about having a poor or healthy body image?

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ANSWER


The Bible has a lot to say about our physical bodies. Genesis 1 describes the unique ways in which God designed the first man and woman. God spoke the entire universe into existence (Genesis 1:369). But when God created man, He took the dust of the earth and formed Adam’s body. God then breathed into Adam’s nostrils “the breath of life and man became a living soul” (Genesis 2:7). God later formed the first woman, Eve, out of a rib from Adam’s side (Genesis 2:21–22). The physical bodies of the man and woman were created to contain the spirit that God then breathed into them. They were designed specifically by the Creator Himself to reflect His own image. So Scripture is clear that God cares a great deal about our physical bodies and how we treat them (Romans 12:1).

A problem arises with “body image” when we disagree with or take credit for God’s design. Striving to keep our bodies healthy and functioning is a worthy goal. However, when we place too much focus upon the appearance of our bodies, it leaves little room for diversity. Our body image is a direct result of the attention we pay to our particular culture’s ideas of what is acceptable. Every culture has its own ideas of beauty. Most twenty-first-century Americans would disagree with the African Zulu warrior’s concept of physical attractiveness. And what Hollywood now calls beautiful would have been rejected by European aristocracy five hundred years ago. To despise our bodies is to despise the gift God has given us. However, to overemphasize our beauty or physique is to become prideful, and pride leads to destruction (Proverbs 16:18James 4:6).

Psalm 139:13–14 sets the standard for a healthy outlook on body image: “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” If we are fearfully and wonderfully made, then that leaves no room for disagreement with our Creator’s design. Isaiah 45:9 says, “Does the clay say to the potter, ‘What are you making?’” Even those with bodies that do not function normally can be thankful for the body they do have, knowing they can also bring glory and pleasure to God with their bodies, just as anyone can. We were each created for His glory and His pleasure (Colossians 1:16). Our physical bodies are part of His plan for us, and a healthy body image sees the physical being as a gift from a loving God.

When we give our lives to Jesus, our bodies become the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 3:166:19–20). As followers of Christ, we are to treat our bodies with reverence and respect, as belonging to Him (Romans 6:12–13). We are told some specific ways we can do that: by avoiding gluttony (Proverbs 23:20), abstaining from strong drink (Isaiah 5:22Proverbs 20:1); remaining sexually pure (1 Corinthians 6:18Ephesians 5:3); and controlling our words (Proverbs 12:22Colossians 4:6).

Our body image should be based on only one factor: does the way I present my body indicate that my life is dedicated to the glory of God? When God’s glory is our goal, we can have confidence and pleasure in our physical appearance, regardless of society’s standards, knowing that we are pleasing the only One whose opinion matters (Psalm 37:18).

When does hygiene cross the line and become vanity?

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ANSWER


Body image and health are huge topics of discussion in our culture, and it can be difficult to know how to care for our bodies without allowing them to become our idols. The most important thing to remember is that the body of a Christian is God’s temple; His Holy Spirit dwells within us. Paul writes, “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” (1 Corinthians 6:19–20). Earlier, he wrote, “Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy him; for God’s temple is sacred, and you are that temple” (1 Corinthians 3:16).

Clearly, we are called to care for our physical bodies. We were physically created by God and called to honor Him physically. That being said, our hygiene is important to God. The Old Testament is filled with references to hand-washing and foot-washing, washing clothing, washing before eating, etc. Ritual washings were to remind the people that they were not to come into God’s presence without washing the dust and dirt of the world from their bodies. The tabernacle in the wilderness included a basin for the priests to wash themselves before serving the Lord (Exodus 30:18). Even Jesus washed the disciples’ feet at the Last Supper, although this was more a comment on servanthood than on cleanliness.

Washing is used in the New Testament to signify a spiritual cleansing of sin available only through Christ. Ephesians 5:26 tells us that Christ cleansed the church—all those who believe in Him for salvation—by “washing with water through the word.” Here we see the picture of the internal spiritual cleansing the Word of God provides for us. The rebirth all Christians experience is pictured as a washing and renewal by the Holy Spirit (Titus 3:5). So it’s clear that inward washing and cleansing are important themes in the Bible.

But what about washing and hygiene as a physical, rather than spiritual, act? There is a line between hygiene and vanity that can be easily blurred, especially in a culture so motivated by visual beauty. How do we steward our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit without becoming vain? The most important thing is to monitor the condition of the heart. If we see our value in terms of physical beauty, we are missing the point. Our value lies in what God has done for us, cleansing us inwardly from sin, not in how much we clean and wash our outer selves. Our hearts reflect the person we have become—new creations in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17). It’s important to remember that man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7). Proverbs 31:30 says, “Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” God is not condemning beauty or caring for the body but simply saying that the body (or worldly beauty) is not the most important thing. We are to care for our bodies to keep them in good shape so we can be of value to God and His people, and this certainly includes hygiene. But 1 Timothy 4:8 reminds us, “Physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.”

As with many things in life, practicing hygiene while avoiding vanity is something that requires prayer and perhaps daily conscious effort. If our hearts are focused on God, we can’t go wrong. We should seek Him; trust Him for our needs; delight in the inward beauty He has given us; and steward our bodies as His servants, not as if they were our own. When we seek God first and abide in Him, we will learn to listen to Him and obey Him. In doing this, we will care for the bodies He has given us without allowing our bodies to rule over us.

What does the Bible say about vanity?

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“Vanity of vanities, says the Preacher, Vanity of vanities! All is vanity” (Ecclesiastes 1:2, ESV). The Hebrew word for “vanity” used in this verse literally means “vapor” or “breath.” It can also be translated “meaningless,” “emptiness,” or “futility.” This preacher is Solomon, and he is telling us that, after exploring all the world has to offer, he has found it amounts to nothing. It is pointless to chase worldly goals because they disappear with our last breath. That foundation helps us understand the other ways the word vanity is used in the Bible.

Romans 8:20 says that all creation was subjected to vanity because of God’s curse. When Adam sinned, God cursed all that He had made (Genesis 3:17–19). In other words, perfection was lost. All of creation is now falling short of its original purpose; rather than working in harmony with God and creation, inhabitants of the earth have turned on each other and against God. We still reel from the effects of that curse. Everything meant to be right side up is upside down. The chaos and insanity of the world as we know it are due to the fact that God has subjected creation to vanity until the time when it will be set free (Romans 8:21).

When vanity enters our personal lives, it brings with it pridejealousyenvystrifehaughtiness, and many other negative things. Vanity devalues what’s important and puffs up what is trivial. Vanity peppers the mind with nervous questions: “How do I look?” “What will people think of me?” “Why wasn’t I honored instead of him?” Proverbs 16:18 warns that “pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall,” but vanity rarely listens to warnings.

A person consumed with vanity is self-absorbed and preoccupied with his or her own opinions, issues, and desires. At the root of all vanity is self, which demands to be protected at all costs. Self cannot co-rule our lives along with the Holy Spirit. God will not share His throne. That’s why Jesus calls us to die to self in order to follow Him (Luke 9:23). Vanity is an enemy of the Spirit and must be constantly brought to the cross and crucified (Galatians 2:20Romans 6:1–6).

King Saul let vanity rule his life until it destroyed him. Strikingly handsome, gifted, and chosen by God, Saul had the potential to be a world-changer (1 Samuel 9:1–2). Humbled at first that he should be God’s elect king (1 Samuel 9:2110:21–22), Saul soon let vanity go to his head (1 Samuel 13:8–14). His vanity decided that he was important enough to disregard the command of the Lord and make things happen in his own way. Because of this, God removed His blessing and His Spirit from Saul so that the remainder of his reign was plagued with jealousies, murder, and discord (1 Samuel 16:1418:10–11).

Vanity can cause us to become impressed with our own greatness, achievements, or attractiveness. Left unchecked, vanity decides that we, like Saul, are important enough to disregard God’s commands and make things happen in our own way. We read, “Thou shalt not . . .” in Scripture but think, “That’s for other people.” If we are confronted about our sin, we get offended at the one confronting us.

The defense of vanity sounds something like this:
“I know I shouldn’t be doing X, but I’m really a good person.”
“I know what the Bible says, but I think . . .”
“We all have our own personal truth. My truth is that . . .”

Vanity played a role in the first sin in the Garden of Eden, and it continues to be the root of most sin today. Satan introduced vanity with the words, “Has God really said . . .?” (Genesis 3:1). Eve saw that the forbidden fruit was beautiful, tasty, and appealing, and vanity began to stir within her. The desire for pleasure and personal promotion displaced God in her heart. Still today, sin occurs when we allow our own opinions to trump God’s Word. When vanity rules us, God does not. When God rules us, vanity has to go.

 


Thursday, August 17, 2023

Thank you

8-17-23


Thank you that Jodi is back

thank you for helping me switch conference rooms

Thank you for the peace I feel

Thank you for the beautiful day

Thank you for the reminder not to entertain "If onlys" and to produce good fruit for your kingdom by letting you direct me

The priest was a person who approached God on official business. He came before God to plead for the people. He was not there as a private individual, coming to offer his opinions or advice to the Lord. His garment set him apart, even in his own mind, to do the work of intercession before God. He officially bore the names of Israel on his shoulders and upon his heart. Ex 28:30

Too often we take the liberty to approach the Lord casually, offering our opinions, advice and judgements about others to Him who sits upon the throne. Without thinking we come before Him through the veil of His flesh "dressed" in soulishness, forgetting that we must clothe ourselves in HIS Righteousness, aware that His Spirit is upon us. We forget that we are anointed with oil more precious than any earthly symbolic counterpart. How glorious it would be if we understood all this! How glorious it would be if we came before God to insist that He bless the one we are praying for: that He would not relent but pour out blessing, grace, and mercies, and that he would bring them into the fullness that He has intended for their lives, that HIs victory on Calvary would be efficacious in them and that God would be glorified. How glorious if we came before God with a Bible, worn out from use and wet with tears to plead for Israel in this manner - to insist that God work in order that the whole world would know His great power to save to fulfill and to transform even a nation that has so long strayed from Him.

How glorious it would be if we came before God for His body, His bride, insisting that He sanctify her, cleanser her, and complete her that He would glorify HIs name in her and shine through her and shine through her with holiness and grace.

For such God is looking (see Ezekiel 22:30) Will it be you?

Ezekiel 22:30 NLT

30“I looked for someone who might rebuild the wall of righteousness that guards the land. I searched for someone to stand in the gap in the wall so I wouldn’t have to destroy the land, but I found no one.

Ps 23:3 he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake.


Ps 37:11-29

11The lowly will possess the land
and will live in peace and prosperity.
12The wicked plot against the godly;
they snarl at them in defiance.
13But the Lord just laughs,
for he sees their day of judgment coming.
14The wicked draw their swords
and string their bows
to kill the poor and the oppressed,
to slaughter those who do right.
15But their swords will stab their own hearts,
and their bows will be broken.
16It is better to be godly and have little
than to be evil and rich.
17For the strength of the wicked will be shattered,
but the Lord takes care of the godly.
18Day by day the Lord takes care of the innocent,
and they will receive an inheritance that lasts forever.
19They will not be disgraced in hard times;
even in famine they will have more than enough.
20But the wicked will die.
The Lord’s enemies are like flowers in a field—
they will disappear like smoke.
21The wicked borrow and never repay,
but the godly are generous givers.
22Those the Lord blesses will possess the land,
but those he curses will die.
23The Lord directs the steps of the godly.
He delights in every detail of their lives.
24Though they stumble, they will never fall,
for the Lord holds them by the hand.
25Once I was young, and now I am old.
Yet I have never seen the godly abandoned
or their children begging for bread.
26The godly always give generous loans to others,
and their children are a blessing.
27Turn from evil and do good,
and you will live in the land forever.
28For the Lord loves justice,
and he will never abandon the godly.
He will keep them safe forever,
but the children of the wicked will die.
29The godly will possess the land
and will live there forever.

Tuesday, January 17, 2023

Ready

 

January 17

Arthur T, Pierson says in God and Missions Today: “The Whole church of God should be a great body of evangelists. Instead of first absorbing pastor after pastor and then like insatiate sponges demanding ministrations of evangelists besides, church members should say to their minister. ‘Let us alone and go after the lost.’”

Ready to suffer grief and pain
Ready to stand the test
Ready to stay at home and send others
If He sees best

Ready to go
Ready to stay
Ready my place to fill
Reedy for service lowly or great
Ready to do His will

Ready to go
Ready to bear
Ready to watch and pray
Ready to stand aside and wait
‘Til He shall clear the way

Ready to speak
Ready to think
Ready with heart and brain
Ready to stand where He sees fit
Ready to bear the strain

Ready to speak.
Ready to warn
Ready o'er souls to yearn
Ready in life
Ready in death
Ready for His return

Go therefore and make disciples of all nations. . . .
Matthew 28:19

My answer is yes, Lord Jesus, I mean it.

Friday, November 4, 2022

My Will (DC talk lyrics)

 

I'm setting the stage for the things I love
And I'm now the man I once couldn't be
And nothing on earth could now ever move me
I now have the will and the strength a man needs
It's my will, I'm not moving
'Cause if it's Your will, then nothing can shake me
And it's my will to bow and praise You
I now have the will to praise my God
Complexity haunts me for I am two men
Entrenched in a battle that I'll never win
My discipline fails me, my knowledge it fools me
But You are my shelter, all the strength that I need
It's my will, I'm not moving
'Cause if it's Your will, then nothing can shake me
And it's my will to bow and praise You
I now have the will to praise my God
I'm learning to give up the rights to myself
The bits and the pieces I've gathered as wealth
Could never compare to the joy that You bring me
The peace that You show me is the strength that I need

It's my will, I'm not moving
'Cause if it's Your will, then nothing can shake me

And it's my will to bow and praise You
I now have the will to praise my God

We've got to be children of peace
Don't you know we've got to be children of peace
And it's my will, I'm not moving
(We've got to be)
'Cause if it's Your will, then nothing can shake me
(Children of peace)
And it's my will to bow and praise You
(Don't you know we've got to be)
I now have the will to praise my God
(Children of peace)
And it's my will, I'm not moving
(We've got to be)
'Cause if it's Your will, then nothing can shake me
(Children of peace)
And it's my will to bow and praise You
(Don't you know we've got to be)
I now have the will to praise my God
(Children of peace)
It's Your will, it's Your will, na, na
It's Your will, it's Your will
It's Your will, it's Your will, na, na
It's Your will, it's Your will
And it's my will, I'm not moving
(We've got to be)
'Cause if it's Your will, then nothing can shake me
(Children of peace)
And it's my will to bow and praise You
(Don't you know we've got to be)
I now have the will to praise my God
(Children of peace)
Don't you know, we've got to be children of peace
Don't you know, we've got to be children of peace

Wednesday, November 2, 2022

Obedience to God's will - Better than getting a lot done

 

November 2

Jesus was obedient to the Father. Read His story. When He was twelve years old He obeyed His earthly parents, at the same time knowing that He had to be busy with the things of His heavenly Father. When John the Baptist tried to stop Him from being baptized, He said He wanted to have baptism as a sign of obedience. How glorious it was when the Holy Spirit came down on Him and the Father spoke from heaven: "This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased" Matthew 3:17 RSV

"To obey is better than sacrifice . . . ." 1 Samuel 15:22 RSV

Holy Spirit, let me know whether there is any disobedience in my life. I want to do what You want.

Praying for those who hurt me

 

3 Ways to Pray for Those Who Persecute Us

1. Pray with Forgiveness

 

“For if you forgive others their offenses, your heavenly Father will forgive you as well. But if you don’t forgive others, your Father will not forgive your offenses.” (Matthew 6:14-15)

 

Forgiving others allows God to forgive us. Not doing so, means God won’t forgive us. When we pray with forgiveness on our hearts, we beseech God to bless those who have offended us instead of cursing them. When we forgive, we replace the malice in our hearts with care with the person instead. While forgiveness is easy to discuss, the feelings held after an offense has been made can be difficult to release. The solution then is to ask God to support us in forgiving the person. The more we can pray with forgiveness in our hearts, the more we can operate in the way Jesus taught.

 

 

2. Pray with Love

 

“By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” (John 13:35)

 

“If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat, and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink, for you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.” (Proverbs 25:21-22)

 

The worldly response to persecution whether by means of violence or slander is to retaliate. Jesus showed us on the cross how we can respond to our persecutors. When we pray for our oppressors from a place of love, we seek their wellbeing, not their harm. We can ask God to mold and shift their hearts instead of us trying to force change.

 

 

3. Pray with Humility

 

“With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love” (Ephesiasn 4:2)

 

When we achieve forgiveness and love in our prayers, we are putting on full display our humility. This means we do not act or pray in a way that indicates God values us any more or any less than the other person. Instead, we see the persecutor as a child of God and ask God to bless them just as he blesses us.

 

The more we can see everyone as being made in God’s image, the less we will see them as an enemy (Genesis 1:26). Praying for others will be easier, and in turn, there may be less persecution, at the very least from Christians.

 

A Prayer for Those Who Persecute You

Lord Jesus, following Your example and command, we pray for our enemies today. We ask first that You would saturate our lives with the Holy Spirit’s power and might. Send Your love flowing through us, and forgive us for holding on to anything that could hinder our prayers. We release any unforgiveness, thoughts of revenge, or hateful emotions that can quench Your Spirit in our hearts. Then give us wisdom as we seek how to bless, to love, and to pray for our enemies.

 

 

We pray for you to bless our enemies and to orchestrate events in their lives that will leave their hearts exposed before you. As You characterized blessing in the Beatitudes, we pray that You would give them a poverty of spirit that recognizes their deep need for You. We pray they will discover Your comfort in times of mourning, and they would be humbled before You—in Your way and Your time. We pray You would show them mercy before it is too late—knowing we were all God’s enemies before You extended mercy to us—and that they would, in turn, be merciful to others.

 

Knowing how you sometimes use pain and difficulty to bring blessing to our lives, we pray the same for our enemies. Use whatever means You need to soften stony hearts, open blind eyes, and to help them realize their ultimate neediness for You. If necessary, allow persecution in their own lives so they can experience Your blessing. Speak to them in miraculous, supernatural ways if necessary, through a dream, a movie, another believer, Your Word—or even through our own lives if we are ever confronted. In some way, let them witness Your power and recognize that You are the source. We pray for conviction, for an honest evaluation of their own destiny, and for a sense of desperation if that’s what it takes for them to consider Your claims and to discover Who You really are. Pursue them, even allowing goodness to lead them to repentance. And give us patience and a deep trust in You, Lord, even when we can’t see any change in our enemies. When we waver, not wanting to pray for our enemies, help us to remember Your grace in our own lives, and what we would be without You. Amen. (prayer by Rebecca Barlow Jordan)

A Powerful Prayer for Your Enemies

 

"Pray for those who persecute you." Perhaps one of the hardest commands Jesus gives to us as His disciples is to bless, love, and pray for our enemies. But how can you pray for someone who wants to harm you? In ourselves, we can’t. But through the power of God’s Spirit working through us, all things are possible. Through Jesus, we can pray for our enemies. Here’s one way you might pray:

 

What Does the Bible Say about 'Pray for Those Who Persecute You'

In the Old Testament, even righteous people prayed for God to destroy their enemies in cruel ways. Their prayers were not prayers of blessing. Proverbs and other passages talk about how to treat our enemies in positive ways. But Jesus turned life upside down with His command to bless, to love, and to pray for our enemies. While not defining who our enemies were, in the Beatitudes Jesus described enemies as those who mock us, persecute us, lie about us, or despitefully use us. And that we were blessed if we experienced those things. He added that those who were not for Him were against Him. Jesus taught a new way to live life: with love, not hate. He encouraged us to recognize that the true enemy behind all wrongs is Satan—and how to resist him. But regarding our earthly enemies, when we don’t know how or what to pray for them, we can trust the Holy Spirit to pray through us.

 

A Prayer for Your Enemies

Lord Jesus, following Your example and command, we pray for our enemies today. We ask first that You would saturate our lives with the Holy Spirit’s power and might. Send Your love flowing through us, and forgive us for holding on to anything that could hinder our prayers. We release any unforgiveness, thoughts of revenge, or hateful emotions that can quench Your Spirit in our hearts. Then give us wisdom as we seek how to bless, to love, and to pray for our enemies.

 

 

We pray for you to bless our enemies and to orchestrate events in their lives that will leave their hearts exposed before you. As You characterized blessing in the Beatitudes, we pray that You would give them a poverty of spirit that recognizes their deep need for You. We pray they will discover Your comfort in times of mourning, and they would be humbled before You—in Your way and Your time. We pray You would show them mercy before it is too late—knowing we were all God’s enemies before You extended mercy to us—and that they would, in turn, be merciful to others.

 

Lord, we pray that instead of lusting for pure evil, they would hunger and thirst for Your purity and righteousness, become advocates of Your justice and that their warring spirits would be changed into peacemaking. Remove the façade of well-being; tear down the lies that have deceived them; and hedge their ways until they can see no way out but up. We pray You would show them the futility of what they are doing because in opposing God’s kingdom and in their darkness, they are often oblivious about the true reasons for their behavior and resulting consequences. Reveal to them any deep hurts or traumas in their own lives that may be contributing to their destructive actions.

 

Knowing how you sometimes use pain and difficulty to bring blessing to our lives, we pray the same for our enemies. Use whatever means You need to soften stony hearts, open blind eyes, and to help them realize their ultimate neediness for You. If necessary, allow persecution in their own lives so they can experience Your blessing. Speak to them in miraculous, supernatural ways if necessary, through a dream, a movie, another believer, Your Word—or even through our own lives if we are ever confronted. In some way, let them witness Your power and recognize that You are the source. We pray for conviction, for an honest evaluation of their own destiny, and for a sense of desperation if that’s what it takes for them to consider Your claims and to discover Who You really are. Pursue them, even allowing goodness to lead them to repentance. And give us patience and a deep trust in You, Lord, even when we can’t see any change in our enemies. When we waver, not wanting to pray for our enemies, help us to remember Your grace in our own lives, and what we would be without You.

 

 

 

Why Should We 'Pray for Those Who Persecute You'

Why should we pray for our enemies? Because Jesus did. He prayed for those who opposed Him, for those who devised evil against Him, and ultimately as He hung on the Cross, Jesus prayed for His Father to forgive all those who had a part in His death—because they didn’t know what they were doing. Jesus modeled unconditional love and how we should pray for our enemies, then commanded us to do the same.

 

Prayer is an amazing discipline and privilege. What usually happens when we pray for anyone, is that the prayer acts as a boomerang. God may or may not answer in the way we prayed, but God often chooses to bless and change us as a result of our obedience to pray. It’s hard to stay angry at someone for whom you earnestly pray. Prayer also leaves the consequences, revenge, and complete justice to God. It’s a transference of our will into God’s hands. By praying for our enemies, God’s Spirit can supernaturally show love and kindness through us or another that may ultimately change them. That process can also eradicate our fear of our enemies because perfect love casts out fear. Jesus said not to be afraid of those who could destroy us physically. Instead, we are to fear—a reverent attitude—the One Who determines and fulfills our soul’s destiny.   

      

 

7 Bible Verses that Give Us Perspective about Praying for Our Enemies:

 

Proverbs 16:7 NASB, When a man’s ways are pleasing to the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.

Matthew 5:44 KJV,  But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.

Luke 23:34 NIV, Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”

Mark 11:25 NIV, “And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”

Romans 12:20-21 MSG, Our Scriptures tell us that if you see your enemy hungry, go buy that person lunch, or if he’s thirsty, get him a drink. Your generosity will surprise him with goodness. Don’t let evil get the best of you; get the best of evil by doing good.

1 Peter 3:9 TLB, Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t snap back at those who say unkind things about you. Instead, pray for God’s help for them, for we are to be kind to others, and God will bless us for it.

Proverbs 20:22 NLT, Don’t say, “I will get even for this wrong.” Wait for the Lord to handle the matter.

To Jesus, every person mattered. He came to show us the Father’s complete love, even while we were still His “enemies.” And when He called us as His followers, He didn’t leave us without a model. Knowing we would be mistreated and even persecuted for belonging to and believing in Him, He commanded us to pray for our enemies. When we do, God’s power is unleashed in them—and in us.   

 

How Do We Pray for Those Who Hurt Us?

When we can’t find the words, we can lean on His. When we find them hard to get out because the pain in our hearts clogs us, we can tell Him with authenticity that we want to love people as He does.

 

How Do We Pray for Those Who Hurt Us?

 

“But I say to you who hear, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who persecute you" (Luke 6:27-28).

 

Jesus’ instruction to pray for those who mistreat us can feel like an impossible task!

 

I knew a woman once who had a very unfortunate interpretation of the task. She said, “Oh! I’ll pray for them alright! I’ll pray that God will get ‘em! That He’ll make ‘em pay and make them regret how they treated me!”

 

She missed the spirit of the words a bit!

 

In Greek, the word used to describe how we ought to pray is proseuchomai, which is a compound word coming from two words meaning to ask/wish/pray and advantage/blessing/beside.

 

When we are told to “bless those who curse us,” the word for bless is eulogeō (where we get our English word eulogy) and means to speak well of.

 

So, Jesus tells us to do good, speak good about, and pray good things for those who have hurt us emotionally (hate), relationally (they cursed or spoke badly of us), and physically/literally (mistreat).

 

In Greek, the word for good is kalōs and is usually translated as good, but can also be translated as: Beautifully, commendably, correctly.

 

What Does it Mean to 'Pray for Those Who Persecute You'?

While it is good to unpack these instructions from Jesus, sometimes we just hurt so much we can’t even find the words to pray or speak well of someone, let alone find a way to do good to them.

 

This is where we find a treasure already prepared for us in God’s Word, by praying His own words back to Him.

 

The practice of rephrasing Scripture into our own prayers, or letting it guide our hearts in prayer, is very powerful in every aspect of our lives.

 

Praying blessings over people can be especially hard and the Lord’s word will carry us in this task.

 

For example, this is the Aaronic blessing from Numbers:

 

The Lord bless you, and keep you; The Lord make His face shine on you, And be gracious to you; The Lord lift up His countenance on you, And give you peace (Numbers 6:24-26)

 

Those words of blessing can be fashioned into a prayer where we ask God to bless the person who hurt us, to keep them, to be gracious to them, and give them peace.

 

Scripture is full of blessings, and we can use God’s own words to shape our prayer to Him. When we can’t find the words, we can lean on His.

 

And when we find them hard to choke out because the pain in our hearts clogs us, we can tell Him with authenticity that we want to do His will and we want to love people as He does.

 

We can confess that we know He loves them in this way (the blessing in His Word) but that our heart is full of hurt and we are struggling to agree with Him over it.

 

We can admit that we need to grow in His sacrificial love and ask Him to carry us until our hearts reflect just Him and His perfect love, instead of our pain and shortcomings.

 

Jesus tells us this is a form of sacrificial love for our enemies. He goes on to say:

 

But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for He Himself is kind to ungrateful and evil men. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful (Luke 6:35-36).

 

As we follow Jesus’ words, we “will be sons of the Most High.” There is a promise that as we seek to love people unconditionally and to do good to them even when they wrong us, it is like wearing our crowns out loud!

 

It reveals whose kid we are — the King’s child! No wrong done to us can take that from us and the more pure and true we live out that love, the more we reflect our Father.

 

Paul continues to urge believers in a similar call, again with the promise that this is how we show that we are God’s children:

 

Do all things without grumbling or disputing; so that you will prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world… (Philippians 2:14-15).

 

How to be Imitators of Christ: Pray for Those Who Persecute You

If we are living without grumbling against one another, but seeking to be lights, it isn’t a leap of faith in what Paul refers to the kind of relationship or interactions Jesus was speaking about.

 

Those moments when the frustration or hurt just bubbles inside us so strong it’s hard to keep it from pouring out our mouths too! Yet it is in those very moments that we prove whether we are just like the world or whether we are like God.

 

Paul adds in his letter to the Ephesians:

 

Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma (Ephesians 5:1-2).

 

Christ gave Himself up so that people, broken by sin, could come to God in freedom and forgiveness. We are called to this same sacrifice and purpose. Thankfully, Christ has done the work for all of us, you and the person who hurt you.

 

What Should We Learn from Jesus' Call to Love Our Enemies?

It is now our privilege to walk in His finished work. And one of the sweetest ways we can do that is through praying for those who have hurt us.

 

One of the most powerful things I have personally found about praying for those who have hurt me is that it is just between me and God.

 

Sometimes, a relationship is so toxic that trying to do something good for them or even interacting with them at all gets twisted beyond our ability to act “beautifully, commendably, or correctly” but we can always pray for them.

 

God doesn’t usually ask us to revisit physically dangerous people or situations (however there are powerful testimonies of people who have been called to that, so we don’t want to put God in any kind of box and miss out on following Him where He would call us), but there is never a time we can’t ask God’s blessing on them. It might not be easy. But it promises the great reward of showing us to be God’s children!